Becoming Catholic · Lesson 8 of 9

After Easter: How Do I Not Drift Away?

After Easter, stay close to Sunday Mass, a parish community, Confession, prayer and learning, the same habits that kept the first Christians faithful.

A complete lesson from Becoming Catholic: Your OCIA Companion. About 3 minutes to read.

The Return of the Prodigal Son, a painting by Bartolome Esteban Murillo
The Return of the Prodigal Son, Bartolome Esteban Murillo, 1667-1670

The Vigil ends, the photos are taken, and suddenly there is no class on Wednesday night. Many new Catholics feel a strange letdown in the weeks after Easter. That is normal, and the Church planned for it.

The period after the sacraments is called mystagogy, from a Greek word meaning to lead into the mysteries. The newly initiated, now called neophytes, reflect on what they experienced: the water, the oil, the bread and wine, and what each one means for daily life (CCC 1075). This normally runs through the Easter season to Pentecost, and many parishes keep meeting monthly for the whole first year.

The early Church set the pattern. The first Christians "were persevering" in four things: the apostles' teaching, community, the breaking of bread, and prayer (Acts 2:42). Those four are still the best protection against drifting.

The Sunday Mass. This is now your weekly anchor and your obligation (CCC 2180-2181). It is not a rule to keep God happy; it is the place where Christ feeds you. When people drift, it usually starts with one skipped Sunday that becomes a habit.

A place in the parish. A parish is meant to be a real community, not a service station (CCC 2179). Join one thing: a ministry, a Bible study, the choir, a service group. Learn a few names. Keep in touch with your sponsor.

Confession and prayer. Go to Confession regularly, perhaps monthly at first, so small things do not pile up. Keep a simple daily prayer: a morning offering, a few minutes with the Gospel of the day, a night examen.

Keep learning. OCIA was a beginning, not a degree. Faith must grow after Baptism (CCC 1254). Read a Gospel straight through, take another course in this app, or join a parish study.

If you do drift, come back. The door has not moved.

Key points

  • Mystagogy is the period after Easter when neophytes reflect on the sacraments they received.
  • The early Church's four habits (teaching, community, the breaking of bread, prayer) still keep faith alive.
  • Sunday Mass is your weekly anchor; drifting usually starts with skipped Sundays.
  • Joining one parish group and keeping regular Confession help faith take root.

The Word of God

And they were persevering in the doctrine of the apostles, and in the communication of the breaking of bread, and in prayers.
Acts 2:42, Douay-Rheims
Not forsaking our assembly, as some are accustomed; but comforting one another, and so much the more as you see the day approaching.
Hebrews 10:25, Douay-Rheims

Catechism paragraphs for this lesson

  • CCC 1075
  • CCC 1254
  • CCC 2179-2182

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Live it this week

Look at your parish bulletin this week, choose one group or ministry, and contact its leader to ask how to join.

Check yourself: three questions

1. What is mystagogy?

  1. A test new Catholics take after Easter
  2. The period after the sacraments for reflecting on the mysteries received
  3. A special blessing given only by the bishop
  4. Another name for the catechumenate
Show the answer

The period after the sacraments for reflecting on the mysteries received. Mystagogy means leading into the mysteries. It is the time after initiation to reflect on what the sacraments mean (CCC 1075).

2. According to this lesson, how does drifting away usually begin?

  1. With a dramatic loss of faith
  2. With a disagreement with the pastor
  3. With one skipped Sunday that slowly becomes a habit
  4. With reading too much theology
Show the answer

With one skipped Sunday that slowly becomes a habit. Most people do not leave in one moment. Small gaps in Sunday Mass slowly grow into distance.

3. Which four habits did the first Christians persevere in, according to Acts 2:42?

  1. Fasting, almsgiving, pilgrimage and silence
  2. Preaching, healing, travel and debate
  3. Study, work, rest and family
  4. The apostles' teaching, community, the breaking of bread, and prayer
Show the answer

The apostles' teaching, community, the breaking of bread, and prayer. Acts 2:42 names the apostles' doctrine, the communion of believers, the breaking of bread, and prayers.

Words to know

Neophyte
A newly initiated Catholic, especially during the first year after the sacraments.

More terms in the Catholic glossary. More passages in the Scripture index.

For catechists: a one hour class plan

Goal. The group should understand what mystagogy is and the four habits of the early Church, and each person should leave with a concrete plan to stay rooted after Easter.

Opener. Ask: "Have you ever had a big event end, a wedding, a trip, a graduation, and felt a letdown afterward?" Let people share. Then name that this is common after Easter and that the Church planned for it.

Discussion questions

  1. Acts 2:42 names four habits of the first Christians: teaching, community, breaking of bread and prayers. Which one is strongest in your life, and which is weakest? [Honest answers help planning. No shame here.]
  2. The lesson says drifting usually starts with skipped Sundays. Why do you think that is? [Sunday Mass is the weekly anchor. Be practical: work schedules, kids, travel. Suggest finding backup Mass times.]
  3. What might make it hard to stay connected to the parish after OCIA ends? [Shyness, not knowing anyone, family who are not Catholic. Respond with charity, especially to those whose families did not support their choice.]
  4. What would help you most in the first year as a Catholic? [Collect ideas for the parish team: a monthly gathering, a mentor, a small group.]

Activity. Bring copies of the parish bulletin or a list of parish groups. Each person spends 5 minutes picking one group or ministry to try. Then each writes a simple "rule of life" card with four lines, one for each habit of Acts 2:42 (for example: Sunday Mass, one small group, one Confession date, five minutes of prayer daily). In pairs, share the cards (6 minutes).

Closing prayer. Lord, You did not bring us this far to leave us. Keep us close to You at Sunday Mass, in prayer and in the life of this parish. When the excitement fades, give us faithfulness. Bind us together as friends in You. Amen.

Timing. Opening prayer 5 min, opener 5 min, read the lesson together 12 min, discussion 18 min, activity (rule of life cards) 15 min, closing 5 min.

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