For Children · Lesson 13 of 24

Why Did Jesus Die on the Cross?

Jesus freely chose to die on the cross out of love for us, to take away our sins and bring us back to God.

A complete lesson from Jesus Loves Me: A Catechism for Children. About 3 minutes to read.

Suffer the Little Children to Come unto Me, a painting by Jacob Jordaens
Suffer the Little Children to Come unto Me, Jacob Jordaens, c. 1615-1616

After the Last Supper, Jesus went to a garden to pray. Some leaders who did not believe in Him had Him arrested. Even though Jesus had done nothing wrong, He was sentenced to die on a cross. Many of His friends were frightened and ran away, but His mother Mary and His friend John stayed near Him.

Jesus could have stopped all of it. He is God! But He chose to give His life freely, out of love for His Father and for us. It was part of God's loving plan to save the world (CCC 599, 606).

Why? Sin had broken our friendship with God, like a bridge that had fallen down. We could not fix it on our own. Jesus, who is God and man, gave His life to become the bridge, so we could cross back to God. When He died, He knew and loved every person, including you (CCC 613, 616).

Even on the cross, Jesus kept loving. He prayed for the people who hurt Him: Father, forgive them. And He gave His mother Mary to John, and to all of us, to be our mother too.

That is why the cross is not a sad sign for Christians. It is the sign of the greatest love there is. The day Jesus died is called Good Friday, because of the good He did for us. And the story is not over: in three days comes the happiest surprise in history.

Key points

  • Jesus freely gave His life out of love.
  • His death opened the way back to God for everyone.
  • The cross is the sign of the greatest love.

The Word of God

Greater love has no one than this, that someone lay down his life for his friends.
John 15:13
Father, forgive them, for they don’t know what they are doing.
Luke 23:34

Catechism paragraphs for this lesson

  • CCC 599
  • CCC 606
  • CCC 613
  • CCC 616

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Live it this week

Look at a crucifix at home or at church this week and say: Thank You, Jesus, for loving me so much. Then try to forgive someone who hurt you, the way Jesus did on the cross.

Check yourself: three questions

1. Why did Jesus die on the cross?

  1. Because He could not escape
  2. Because He did something wrong
  3. Because nobody liked Him
  4. Because He loved us and chose to save us
Show the answer

Because He loved us and chose to save us. Jesus could have stopped it, but He freely gave His life out of love.

2. What did Jesus pray for the people who hurt Him?

  1. That they would be punished
  2. That God would forgive them
  3. That they would go away
  4. He did not say anything
Show the answer

That God would forgive them. Jesus prayed: Father, forgive them, for they don't know what they are doing.

3. Why do we call it Good Friday?

  1. Because of the great good Jesus did for us
  2. Because the weather was nice
  3. Because it is the end of the week
  4. Because there is no school
Show the answer

Because of the great good Jesus did for us. On Good Friday Jesus gave His life to bring us back to God, the greatest good ever done.

For catechists: a one hour class plan

Goal. The children will know that Jesus freely gave His life on the cross out of love for each of them, and will look at the crucifix with gratitude rather than fear.

Opener. Hold up a crucifix. Ask: "Where have you seen a cross like this? Why do you think Catholics put it in churches and homes?" Keep the tone calm and warm.

Discussion questions

  1. Could Jesus have stopped what happened? [Yes. He is God. He chose to love us all the way.]
  2. What does the bridge picture teach us? [Sin broke our friendship with God, and Jesus became the way back.]
  3. Who stayed with Jesus at the cross? [Mary and John, and a few others. Being faithful means staying close.]
  4. Is there someone you need to forgive, like Jesus did? [No names needed. Invite a silent moment.]

Activity. Craft stick crosses: children make a cross from two craft sticks wrapped with yarn. On the front they write "Jesus loves me". On the back they write the first letter of someone they will forgive or pray for this week. Then go quietly to the church, or gather around a crucifix in the room, and spend one minute in silent thank you. Keep descriptions of the Passion gentle; this age needs love, not graphic detail.

Closing prayer. Jesus, thank You for loving me so much that You gave Your life for me. Help me forgive others the way You forgave. Mary, our mother, stay close to us always. Amen.

Timing. Welcome and Sign of the Cross 5 min, crucifix opener 5 min, read the lesson aloud 10 min, discussion 10 min, craft stick crosses and quiet prayer 15 min, memory verse 5 min, quiz together 5 min, closing prayer 5 min.

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